Girls are weak! Boys are brave! Often, you must have heard this statement.
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In a patriarchal society like ours, we create contrasting gender roles that lead to discrimination
and devaluation of girls and women. Stereotyping that promotes gender
inequity, which later leads to acceptance of imbalances in power. The
root of the problem stems from negative influences on a child’s attitude
and perception. Gender identities are defined as children grow and are
influenced by the situation at home, from their parents, and at school,
from their peers and teachers. This at times leads to discrimination and
questionable gender roles — Children internalise the myth that boys are
strong, while girls are vulnerable.
We
are no strangers to news about young girls being molested. Disha was
five-years-old when she was first abused by a boy who was barely three
times her age. Disha’s case isn’t a lone instance; there are thousands
who share a similar story. Child sexual abuse isn’t restricted to lonely
corners and eerie hours. It has become a very real possibility that
could also occur in ‘happy homes’ and within ‘the best of primary
schools’. The degree of abuse might vary, but that does not make the
problem any less serious.
A study conducted by World Vision India in 2017, shows that one in every two girl children
face some form of abuse. In fact, a few research studies show, one in
three people agree that control over another is not considered a form of
violence or abuse. There is no denying the seriousness of the issue,
especially with the increasing rate of offenses involving children under
the age of ten.
A Change in Outlook is Essential
Several
conservative families in India continue to function in a certain
way — sons are encouraged to study, while daughters are taught to spend
their extra hours on domestic chores at home. There is nothing wrong in
protecting girls and in encouraging boys to be courageous. However,
binding them into gender ‘straitjackets’ and pushing them into corners
is flawed, leading to extreme instances of girls becoming submissive and
boys becoming fearless, all for the wrong reasons.
Certain
ways of life are rarely questioned and are followed blindly. For
instance, mothers would say that girls must be protected, but they would
never tell their children what rape or molestation actually is. There’s
a need to pass on proper information. How their bodies are different,
how they need to stay safe, what gender equality
means and how they must be treated by the society. This is where gender sensitization as a part of school education becomes important. It is
vital that children are encouraged to understand the concept of gender
equality in their formative years.
Create Awareness through specific lesson plans at Schools
There
is a pressing need for awareness pro-grammes that must be conducted in
densely populated villages, suburbs, and cities. Both high schools and
primary schools must start realising this problem to combat the
unfortunate condition by introducing gender sensitisation as a part of
their school education curriculum. Awareness about gender roles, body
safety rules, and abuse are some basics to be taught in growing years.
While a few schools have already started planning out a few initiatives,
more needs to be done. To win the war, these awareness programmes need
to reach out to every single child athwart the country. Through the
collective efforts of the school management and parents, we can hope to
create a safer environment for children.
Some heart-aching facts
1.Currently, India stands a lowly 125th out of 159 ranked countries — United Nations’ gender inequality index.
2.
Female child mortality rate is 17% higher than that of boys, while the
male literacy rate (82%) is far higher than the female rate (65%) in
India
3. The World Economic Forum’s (WEF) Global Gender Gap Report stated
that India fell 21 places on the index to 108, far below the global
average and much behind its neighbors China and Bangladesh.
4.As per the latest data from National Crime Records Bureau, the crime rate against women rose from 41.7% to 53.9%, between 2011 and 2015.
5.
Up to 3,27,394 cases were reported in 2015 alone, including 34,651
cases of rape, 4,437 cases of attempted rape, 59,277 kidnapping and
abductions, 7,634 dowry deaths, and a whopping 1,13,403 cases of
domestic cruelty, among others.
By Dr. Chakraborty, CEO at Fiinovation/ Social entrepreneur.
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